gossip

Norman Rockwell was an American staple (like wheat before Monsanto) in the early twentieth century.  He showed daily life as it was back then.  Evolution must be a slow process since this particular vice is ever with us.  We can all fall into the pit from time to time but let's try this:  If you wouldn't first say it to their face, don't say it behind their backs!  No one can change anything they don't know about, or haven't been taken to task about if they haven't got the will or attention to face it.  No fair! Red flags down on the play with gossip!  
Next time you are tempted (and I am also from time to time) think... Am I prepared to say this to the person's face?  No?  Then don't say it.  Or even better - have I already taken this issue up with the person?  No?  Then don't say it.  Yes?  Well, then it's a reporting of the facts which may or may not be okay, depending on the circumstances.  Stop hiding out in the cheap seats, whispering y'all!  Step up and be counted and be accountable.  Gossip is cowardice.  What's worse is that it is all too often rejoicing in the misfortunes of others and that never brings anything good on the rejoicer by the way.  Just tell them the truth as you see it, what's wrong with that?  Maybe they agree or maybe not but at least the air is cleared and you stepped up.  

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